Wow. We really do have a long way to go in honoring/respecting the choices of others. Thanks for this (my adult son wondered why people choose to have children and I had no ready answer, obviously it's quite a mixed tapestry for both parties but it's good he's thinking about it and "Help on the farm" isn't an answer, wasn't ever a good answer, but was once, I suppose, somebody's answer). Thanks for listening.