Tre, I understand completely. We've just experienced a sudden death in our small neighborhood, much too young a man, lived alone, dunno what happened and we are all shocked and sad but have one another to help us through, realizing it might have been any one of us. Life is fragile and no one knows how much time they have left. I wish you wonderful neighbors who pull one another close and care about their community, no matter where life plunks you down (mountains sound good). Kisses to you and Jernee